Because numerous women's book clubs were interviewed during the research phase of this book, I thought it would be appropriate to include a discussion guide to facilitate an open and hopefully, deeper exchange of information.
- What information did you already know and what was new?
- What surprised you most?
Chapter 2: How Boys Become Men
- Can you identify the male influences in your man's life?
- Has your man been derailed?
- Has your son been derailed?
Chapter 3: Communicating With Men
- What did you think about eliminating certain words from your vocabulary?
- Do you understand why men stop talking?
- What surprised you most about how men communicate?
Chapter 4: Resolving Problems – How To Argue
- What surprised you most about how men argue?
Chapter 5: Navigating the Tough Spots
- Can you identify the core argument topics?
- How hard is it for you to not loose your temper?
Chapter 6: Getting Ready To Date
- Do you, or, do you know women who use these excuses?
- How many male single friends did you invite to your last dinner party?
Chapter 7: Men and Dating
- Were you tested in your current or last relationship?
- When do you think you should have sex? Should the 3rd date rule apply or should some other rule apply?
Chapter 8: From Dating To Relationship
- How do you feel about anchoring your relationship?
Chapter 9: Men And Sex
- Have you experimented with the most popular item on the "sexy dress list?"
- Have you added more variety to your bag of tricks?
- How many have added text messaging as part of the foreplay?
Chapter 10: The Ugly Side of Men
- What is your perspective on jealousy?
- Do you think my German friend was right when she talked about American women and their attitudes towards men?
Chapter 11: Men and Emotions
- Does your man share his emotions?
- Which emotion where you most surprised by?
Chapter 12: Violence And Anger Issues
- What surprised you most about this chapter?
- Do you think domestic violence is being properly addressed?
- Do you know anyone who is or has been abused?
Chapter 13 - Leaving A Man
- What is your best breakup experience?
- What is your worst?
Chapter 14: Our Beliefs Haven’t Changed
- How closely does your definition of masculinity dovetail with this definition?
- Do you think the definition of masculinity should be updated? How?
Chapter 15: What Men Want From Women
- Have you taken the happiness test?
- How many of the things men want from women do you do or not do?
Chapter 16: Questions From Women
- Are you a sports fanatic?
Chapter 17: Requests From Men
- How many of the things most requested by men do you do?